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Aldona Olchanowska, BACP

Based in the UK Online sessions

Support for parents facing relationship and life stress

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Years in practice
20
Registration
BACP
Languages
English, Polish
Focus
Relationship issues
Focus
Family conflicts
Focus
Grief
About

About Aldona

Aldona Olchanowska is a counsellor and psychotherapist with two decades of experience. She works with parents and individuals facing relationship strain, grief, stress and anxiety, and offers support for parenting concerns. She speaks English and Polish and practises from the United Kingdom.

Aldona draws on a client-centred stance to help people speak about what matters most. She listens closely and follows each person's pace. Motivational interviewing is used to explore what someone wants to change and to build practical next steps.

Background and approach

She also uses systemic ideas to look at patterns in family life and relationships. That helps when problems involve roles, boundaries or repeated cycles of behaviour. Sessions aim to make patterns clearer and to identify small shifts that can ease day-to-day strain.

Aldona trained at Warsaw University and at North Dakota State University, and she has also studied clinical social work in the USA. Her background includes practice in psychiatric settings and work across several countries, which informs a broad view of emotional and family issues. She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy - BACP.

Aldona describes her practice as age, race, faith and LGBT affirmative and approaches people with respect and compassion.

Focus areas and approaches

What Aldona works with

Everything Aldona lists, in their own terms. Parenting is the reason this directory exists; the rest shows what else Aldona helps people with.

Approaches Aldona lists

Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.

Online support

Approaches that translate well to online therapy

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and understanding the person's experience. The therapist follows the client's lead and helps them name feelings and priorities, which is useful for relationship and parenting stress.

Motivational Interviewing helps people explore what they want to change and why. It uses questions and reflection to build motivation for small, practical steps, helpful for habits, addictions and lifestyle shifts.

Systemic Therapy looks at patterns between people rather than only inside one person. It can reveal recurring roles and communication cycles that affect family life and parenting, and supports finding new ways of interacting.

Finding the right approach is part of the process and will be worked out together. The therapist will ask about goals, everyday challenges and personal preferences, then try methods that fit those priorities. This collaborative way helps tailor the work so it feels useful and manageable.

Online sessions include video calls, phone conversations, live chat and text-based messaging, which gives flexible options for different days and needs. Video is closest to an in-person meeting, phone works well when bandwidth is limited, live chat can suit brief check-ins and text messages allow reflection between sessions. These formats make it easier to fit therapy around parenting life, work schedules and travel.
Questions

Questions people ask about Aldona

What kinds of problems can Aldona help with?

She supports people with relationship and family issues, grief, depression, anxiety and stress. Other areas include eating and sleeping concerns, addictions, ADHD and compassion fatigue.

How does she approach therapy?

Aldona works in a client-centred way, focusing on what matters to the individual. She also uses motivational interviewing and systemic ideas to help clarify goals and family patterns.

What is her professional background?

She trained at Warsaw University and at North Dakota State University and studied clinical social work in the USA. Her career includes clinical practice in psychiatric settings and international work.

Where is she based and how is she registered?

Her practice is based in the United Kingdom and she is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Polish. International clients are also accepted.

What formats are available for online sessions?

She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.

How does pricing work for therapy?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start a therapy relationship?

Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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