- Years in practice
- 11
- Registration
- NCPS
- Languages
- English
- Focus
- Relationship issues
- Focus
- Family conflicts
- Focus
- Trauma and abuse
About Victoria
Victoria Porteous is a counsellor who blends practical conversation with therapeutic methods. She draws on her own experience of loss and recovery to listen closely and ask straightforward questions. Sessions are warm and down-to-earth, with a touch of humour when appropriate.
Victoria aims to help people find direction and feel less alone. Victoria uses a mix of therapies to suit the person in front of her. She often brings Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy into sessions to help with anxiety, stress and addictive behaviours.
Background and approach
Attachment-based ideas inform work on relationships and family patterns. Emotionally-Focused and client-centred ways of working shape how she supports intimacy and self-worth issues. Her background includes running counselling services for a Government-backed trauma charity during the COVID period, where she mainly supported people with complex trauma.
She also works with referrals from charities and doctors and has experience supporting people connected to business and sport contexts. That practical experience informs a flexible approach to different life problems. Victoria is registered with NCPS and practises in the United Kingdom.
She also brings coaching skills to sessions when clients want goal-focused work or help with career decisions. Her previous career as a personal investigator contributes to careful listening and noticing detail in sessions. People come to Victoria for help with relationship and family tensions, parenting concerns, bereavement and trauma, low self-esteem, addiction and coping with major life changes.
She aims to tailor each plan to what the person needs and to help them take manageable steps forward.
What Victoria works with
Everything Victoria lists, in their own terms. Parenting is the reason this directory exists; the rest shows what else Victoria helps people with.
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Self esteem
- Coping with life changes
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- LGBT
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Career difficulties
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Divorce and separation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Victoria lists
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
- Internal Family Systems
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
Approaches that guide online parenting and relationship work
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without being driven by them. It focuses on values and small actions that move someone toward what matters, which can be useful for parenting stress and behavioural patterns.Cognitive Behavioural Therapy looks at how thoughts, feelings and actions link together and teaches practical skills to change unhelpful patterns. It is often used for anxiety, low mood and addictive behaviours where clear strategies are helpful.
Attachment-Based Therapy concentrates on how early relationship patterns show up in adult life. That perspective can be helpful when addressing relationship strain, intimacy problems and family conflict.
Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Victoria will work with the client to choose methods that match their goals, needs and preferences. Plans are reviewed as therapy progresses so techniques can be focused or adjusted.
Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different routines. Video is useful for fuller conversation and non-verbal cues, phone calls can be easier if bandwidth is limited, while chat or messaging suits quick check-ins or written reflection. These options make it simpler to keep therapy consistent around parenting schedules, work and travel.
Questions people ask about Victoria
What issues does Victoria commonly help with?
Victoria supports people dealing with relationship and family tensions, parenting concerns, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, addiction, grief, anxiety and stress, among other areas.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her style is conversational and personable, often direct and gently challenging when useful. She mixes practical techniques with emotionally focused conversation to help people change patterns.
What relevant background and experience does she have?
Victoria has 11 years of experience and ran counselling services for a Government-backed trauma charity during the COVID period, working mainly with complex trauma survivors.
What credentials and location are listed?
She is listed with NCPS and practises in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
Victoria offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How does pricing work for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.
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