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Lindsey Wheeler, BACP

Based in the UK Online sessions

Supportive counsellor for relationship and parenting challenges

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Years in practice
10
Registration
BACP
Languages
English
Focus
Relationship issues
Focus
Trauma and abuse
Focus
Grief
About

About Lindsey

Lindsey Wheeler is a counsellor with ten years of experience working with adults. She holds BACP registration and practises from the United Kingdom. Lindsey focuses on helping people who are dealing with relationship concerns, trauma, grief and parenting challenges.

She often supports clients coping with ADHD, addictions, eating or sleeping problems, and issues around intimacy and self‑esteem. Her background includes many years in custodial settings and therapeutic communities, which shaped her straightforward, practical style.

Background and approach

Lindsey listens attentively and helps clients make sense of painful experiences. She aims to help people recognise their strengths and find ways to move forward when life feels stuck. Sessions tend to be collaborative and down to earth.

Lindsey uses approaches that suit the person’s situation rather than following a single method. Conversations may include looking at patterns from the past, building everyday coping skills, or working through trauma memories when appropriate. Parents reading this will find a practitioner who understands how parenting strains can affect mood, relationships and daily routines.

She offers help with common parenting struggles and with balancing personal needs alongside caregiving demands. Lindsey encourages small, practical changes that fit into busy lives. She supports people through loss, anger, career crossroads and complex relationship dynamics.

The aim is to reduce overwhelm and find clearer, more manageable ways to cope.

Focus areas and approaches

What Lindsey works with

Everything Lindsey lists, in their own terms. Parenting is the reason this directory exists; the rest shows what else Lindsey helps people with.

Approaches Lindsey lists

Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.

Online support

Therapeutic approaches and how they work online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on clarifying values and taking small committed actions in everyday life. It helps when worry or avoidance gets in the way of parenting, relationships or daily functioning.

Attachment Based Therapy looks at how early relationship patterns affect current connections. It can be useful for people who want to change repeating dynamics in close relationships and increase emotional safety with partners or others.

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a trauma‑focused method that can help reduce the emotional intensity of painful memories. When trauma is a core issue, EMDR may be used alongside other approaches to help people feel less overwhelmed by past events.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, preferences and what feels most helpful. Decisions about methods are made together and can change as progress is made.

Online therapy offers flexibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text based messaging. Video sessions allow face to face conversation and visual connection. Phone calls can be simpler when bandwidth is limited or when someone prefers not to be on camera. Live chat and text messaging suit brief check ins, ongoing reflection between sessions or people who find typing easier than speaking.
Questions

Questions people ask about Lindsey

What concerns does Lindsey commonly help with?

She works with relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, ADHD and addictions. Other areas include sleep and eating problems, anger, career worries and parenting strains.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her approach is practical and collaborative. Sessions focus on making sense of patterns, building coping skills and addressing difficult memories when needed.

What is Lindsey's professional background?

She has ten years of therapy experience and several years working in custodial therapeutic settings. That history influences her clear, direct way of working.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is registered with the BACP and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages and international arrangements are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

In what formats are sessions offered?

Clients can meet by video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

What are the steps to begin working together?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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