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Ingried Upingasana, BACP

Based in the UK Online sessions

Compassionate counselling for stressed parents

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Years in practice
5
Registration
BACP
Languages
English, Afrikaans
Focus
Stress, Anxiety
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Relationship issues
Focus
Trauma and abuse
About

About Ingried

Ingried Upingasana is a counsellor who focuses on helping people manage parenting stress and related life challenges. She speaks English and Afrikaans and brings five years of experience to her practice. She aims to create a warm, non-judgemental space where parents can talk about what feels hard right now.

She supports people dealing with anxiety, low mood, trauma and relationship concerns. Practical tools are offered alongside space to reflect on faith and identity when that is important to the client.

Background and approach

Sessions are aimed at helping people build resilience, hope and clearer ways to cope with daily pressures. Ingried uses a mix of approaches tailored to each person. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy helps identify unhelpful thinking patterns and try different behaviours.

Mindfulness practices are used to ground attention and reduce reactivity. Client-Centred Therapy places the client’s needs and priorities at the centre of sessions. Her work often includes practical strategies for sleep, eating and managing anger or addictive urges.

She also supports people facing career changes, caregiver stress, separation and attachment concerns. The emphasis is on small, manageable steps that can fit into a busy family life. Sessions can include coaching-style conversations for people wanting clearer goals and accountability.

Ingried welcomes people from LGBTQ+ backgrounds and those who want faith-sensitive conversation. She aims to help clients feel steadier and more able to make choices that suit their lives.

Focus areas and approaches

What Ingried works with

Everything Ingried lists, in their own terms. Parenting is the reason this directory exists; the rest shows what else Ingried helps people with.

Approaches Ingried lists

Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.

Online support

Therapeutic approaches and online support for parents

Client-Centred Therapy places the person’s concerns and priorities at the centre of the work. The therapist listens with warmth and reflects what matters to the client so sessions follow the client’s pace and goals. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts, feelings and actions connect and offers simple experiments to change patterns that cause stress or low mood. Mindfulness Therapy teaches brief attention and breathing practices to reduce reactivity and improve focus, which can help with anxiety and sleep problems.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. The therapist will work collaboratively to identify which methods fit best with the client’s needs, goals and preferences. That might mean blending short-term practical steps with gentler reflective work. Clients are invited to give feedback so the plan can be adjusted as things change.

Online sessions make it easier to fit therapy into family life. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when that is helpful. Phone sessions can be a better option when bandwidth is limited or a quicker check-in is needed. Live chat and text-based messaging suit brief updates, coaching-style exchanges or people who prefer writing. These options give flexibility for different schedules and communication styles, while keeping focus on useful tools and steady progress.
Questions

Questions people ask about Ingried

What concerns does she help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, trauma, self-esteem issues and parenting challenges, plus things like sleep, eating and addictions.

What style of therapy can I expect?

Sessions are client-centred and practical. Ingried combines CBT, mindfulness, motivational interviewing and psychodynamic ideas to suit each person.

What experience does she have?

She has five years of clinical experience working with a range of emotional and behavioural concerns.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is registered with BACP and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and Afrikaans.

What session formats are available?

Therapy is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging.

How are fees and subscriptions handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.

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