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Funmilayo Oni, BACP

Based in the UK Online sessions

Guiding parents toward clearer choices

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Years in practice
10
Registration
BACP
Languages
English
Focus
Family conflicts
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Self esteem
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Career difficulties
About

About Funmilayo

Funmilayo Oni is a counsellor with ten years' experience who helps people find more confidence and clearer direction. She trained in person-centred practice and holds BACP accreditation, and she also works as a personal performance coach. Her background makes her comfortable helping people who feel stuck, overwhelmed or unsure about next steps.

She offers a calm, warm presence and a straight‑forward style. Sessions focus on what a person wants to change and practical steps to get there.

Background and approach

She aims to help clients build independence and feel more able to manage everyday pressures. Funmilayo supports people facing low self‑esteem, anxiety, depression and stress, and those coping with trauma or abuse. She also helps with workplace concerns, career choices, life purpose questions and issues around self‑love and body image.

Parenting and family problems are part of her areas of focus too. Her approach is primarily client‑centred, which means she follows the person’s agenda and pace. She incorporates solution‑focused ideas to set short‑term, achievable goals and uses elements of the Gottman Method when relationship patterns are part of the concern.

Sessions are tailored to each person rather than taking a one‑size‑fits‑all route. People can expect a non‑judgemental atmosphere and straightforward conversation about steps forward. She combines coaching tools with counselling to help translate insight into action.

The aim is practical progress and clearer choices, not labels or lengthy theory.

Focus areas and approaches

What Funmilayo works with

Everything Funmilayo lists, in their own terms. Parenting is the reason this directory exists; the rest shows what else Funmilayo helps people with.

Approaches Funmilayo lists

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Online support

How therapeutic styles work in online sessions

Client‑centred therapy puts the person’s experience first, with the counsellor following their lead and reflecting what matters most. This approach helps people feel heard and supported while they clarify what they want to change. The Gottman Method focuses on relationship patterns and practical strategies for communication and conflict; it is useful when interaction styles or parenting dynamics are part of the issue. Solution‑focused therapy looks for small, concrete steps that move someone toward their goal and is useful when quick, practical change is wanted.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will discuss options and adapt methods to the person’s needs, goals and preferences. That means agreeing together which techniques to try and checking how well they help as sessions progress.

Online formats make it easier to fit therapy into busy lives. Video calls allow face‑to‑face conversation and non‑verbal cues. Phone sessions can be simpler when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check‑in is needed. Live chat and text‑based messaging suit people who prefer writing or need flexible, on‑the‑go support. These options let people access counselling from different locations and at times that work with work, parenting or travel commitments.
Questions

Questions people ask about Funmilayo

What concerns does she help with?

She helps with issues such as low self‑esteem, anxiety, depression, stress, trauma and abuse, anger and coping with life changes. Work and career matters, body image, self‑love and parenting are also within her focus.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is warm and non‑judgemental, centred on the person and their goals. She mixes client‑centred listening with solution‑focused steps to reach short‑term targets.

How long has she practised?

She has around 10 years of experience working in counselling and coaching roles.

What credentials and location are listed?

She holds BACP accreditation and works from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text‑based messaging as session formats.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

To get started, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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